Can you trust a friend?
The first thing you want from a friend is not his/her lastest mobile phone or having a good time, is something more important than that– trust. Yes people, they are the next closest people around you (the closest is of course your family), we really believe the compliments they give, the things they say, more often than not, trust them not to tell a secret…….
I remebered once I have a friend back in secondary school, we are like best buddies. like everybody does i have trust on him to be honest…. but then again, i found out that he peeked my answer during an exam (as he was sitting beside me….), i felt i was taken for granted….. of course he didnt admit it…. sadly i dont have the chance to bring up the matter personally to him……
sigh….. i dunno what i would react when i meet him on the street….. should i be furious about this long gone event? or should i act like nothing has happened?? it is so confusing now, i dunno whether we are still friends…..
so people, honesty is the one of the elements to keep a best friend relationship. don’t cheat, lie, or hide something that he/she should know…… this maybe a test of a best-friends relationship……. be honest to each other and the trust will be maintained……
September 13th, 2005 at 10:15 am
Since it has been quite some time and he won’t admit his mistake, why not just loosen up and dun think too much of it dy? Why wanna make ur life miserable? Why wanna confuse urself? You might not be able to trust him ady, but i think u guys can still be friends (not best buds), only that you dun share “stuff” with each other anymore… get what i mean? Humans make mistake, so try to forgive him but next time be more careful when dealing with ppl…
September 13th, 2005 at 11:04 pm
yea, true i tried to forget of him already…. just lately i flashed back some things in the past….. yep, he’s forgiven, but not forgotten